And yes, it’s a little late, but I wanted it to be after everyone was more sober after the crazy celebrations that happened in the first few days. The days of partying, new year resolutions and breaking of new years resolutions (especially if no alcohol is one of those resolutions, like a friend of mine).
Some of my friends go “i found my better half”, and then some of my friends go “i found my other half”. Then there’s others that go “I found the one”. So is it half, or is it one? Haha ok I admit that’s lame, but seriously, the question is: should it be two halfs of a whole, or two complementary wholes?
Maybe you don’t get the question - let me explain. Some people believe that between couples, you can never ever have enough time together. You just want to spend every single minute of your life together with the one you love. Others feel that a couple should lead independent, almost separate lives, and spend just a part of their lives together, in some ways, being a totally complementary pair. So what’s your opinion?
I last saw this video a few months back and this guy - he’s my hero. If you’re ever around the area, ask for a hug from me and you’ll get one immediately! That I promise. 
… make you the happiest, but also make you the saddest.
Just something I noticed. Looks like someone else noticed too. Warning: long video and extremely hilarious heh.
I’m so going to get killed for this, but hey it’s pretty… err. not untrue. hahaha :p
I’ve come to realize consciously that counseling has a certain social stigma. Everytime i tell someone i’m being counseled, the first response i get is almost always (with a sincere worried face that sometimes even reflects a sign of sudden realization “wow, this person has problems”):
Oh, what’s wrong? Are you okay? You can always talk to me too…
I was chatting with a friend when I realized that sometimes, maybe you love and care too much.
So what do I mean? Maybe I’m too idealistic, but I’ve seen instances where the wife hates the husband smoking, but lights it up for him anyway; or the husband hates the wife over-snacking on a particular sweet, but makes sure she has a constant supply anyway. Both do it, because they want to see the other happy more than they want to see it discontinue.
But i’m sure they love each other and want each other to be perfect - no bad habits, y’know? Of course there are some that feel like they really want to help their partners be better people. Help them kick those habits, help them to be the best they can be.
So which is the “right”, or “proper” way to do it?
Or should you be looking more at yourself first? I don’t know.
